by rulamo | Nov 29, 2020 | Couples Therapy, Relationships
Infidelity and Cheating is Widespread: Statistics show that between 35-50% of all women or men in a relationship have had an affair. With such widespread occurrence of infidelity, affairs cannot only be attributed to some act of deviance or amorality, but must be...
by rulamo | Nov 29, 2020 | Couples Therapy, Relationships
It’s all supposed to be very rosy: Two people meet, fall in love, and live happily ever after. That’s what the fairy tale states… And yet underneath the hood of every romantic relationship, we find one thing that all relationships have in common: they are all a...
by rulamo | Nov 29, 2020 | Couples Therapy, Relationships
Why Couples May Not Argue Enough… At first glance it might seem that one of the major reasons couples decide to pursue couples counseling is that they fight too much. Ironically, however, the fights couples engage in are often the result of a determination by...
by rulamo | Nov 29, 2020 | Couples Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy
What is it that makes some couples have more successful and rewarding relationships and others teeter on the brink of relationship disaster? The Secret of Successful Relationships: If you ask me, the secret to a successful relationship or marriage lies in the capacity...
by rulamo | Nov 27, 2020 | Couples Therapy
Even though it might seem that couples argue about a myriad of different issues, when we look a little deeper, we often find that most arguments have one thing in common: They are really about how we feel about each other, and more specifically, how loved or how...
by rulamo | Oct 24, 2020 | Couples Therapy
Believe it or not, I wrote my doctoral dissertation on flirting. I wanted to find out based on first hand accounts, what mindset you get into when you flirt. I wanted to live the experience vicariously through what other people told me about a time when they...
